"Nonetheless, it still feels odd, somehow, that 'self-expression' clearly seems to require supporting labour that may or may nor be at all harmonious with a natural 'self.'"

Oh, I hear you 100%. Thank you for sharing part of this here. It's always nice to feel less alone in one's own vaguely flaily explorations.

Also, your nails look awesome! I love the extra accent doodad on the pinky.